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Control The Controlables
It's really easy to go through life frustrated. Especially if you try hard and take responsibility for things. People who always accomplish things are also frequently frustrated. "Why isn't this working?" "Why is Bob so lazy?" "I've been waiting hours for this package...
You Have To Already Be Good To Find A Mentor
When I first started training martial arts year ago I sucked. Like you don't understand how bad I was. It was awful. I was not an athletic child. I spent most of my time reading books. Lord of the Rings? The Wheel of Time? Dragonlance? That was my jam. Video games?...
How to Start A Conversation With Anyone (and what to do afterwards)
I'm totally jealous of my 8 year old son's ability to meet new people - and I'm a pretty outgoing guy. But I've got nothing, like zero, on the towering confidence he has in himself. Here's the scene: Our family goes to some new place or event. Our son is by himself...
Just Start
Nearly 2 years ago I started a small community for people who read Associate’s Mind. No one was there. It was sad and hollow. I felt dumb for even creating it. Why would people want to be in there? But the community grew slowly over time. First a dozen people. Then...




