I find myself in the odd position of kind of being disappoint that I’m NOT being sued.
- Becoming a good lawyer does not require posting on a blog.
- Becoming a good lawyer does not revolve around Twitter, Facebook, Google +, or some other social media 2.0 bullshit.
- Becoming a good lawyer is not dependent on what type of iPhone/Android/Windows phone you have.
- Becoming a good lawyer does not require advertising, or marketing, or branding.
Becoming a good lawyer requires failure. It requires screwing up a motion and having to re-draft the entire thing. 3 hours of research down the hole only discover a new case that destroys your argument – then writing off that time from your billing and not charging the client because it’s your fault. It’s mis-communication between lawyer/client/opposing counsel/third-party counsel/doctor/court reporter throwing everyone’s schedule out of whack.
It requires 6 hours of round-trip travel in the car for a 20 minute hearing. Early mornings and late nights at the office. Hours away from your family and friends. Time away from your hobbies, projects, and past times.
It’s a 100 little errors and cracks and slip-ups that come through your work when you first start out as a lawyer. You’re learning the ropes. You can’t anticipate exactly how things are going to go. You fall on your face again and again…all at the expense of your client. Your mistakes become their loss.
Or not, if you are as fortunate to join a firm as I was. My failures never leave the office. They are purely internal. My work is reviewed, scrutinized, edited, and improved. I’m sent back and told to try again. I receive advice on how to handle matters. I have fellow associates with who I can commiserate and bounce ideas off of.
Even if I had not joined a firm, I have lawyers that I could rely on. Outside of the office, I maintain relationships with lawyers that I have come to know and respect from the past few years of law school who I can meet for lunch or pick their brain. Every lawyer in the city knows of the 3 or 4 buildings downtown next to the Courthouse that are the typical “starter homes” of new solos and more established small firms. Generally speaking, they’re all willing to “pay it forward” – offer advice or lend an ear to a new young lawyer in need. There are even a (very) small group of lawyers online that that I have solicited non-legal advice from on occasion.
Simply put, new lawyers need a support structure that allows them to fail, learn, and grow in order to develop into good lawyers.
Or at least…that’s what I think right now. What I think could, and probably will, change in the following years. The truth is, I don’t know what it takes to be a good lawyer. I’m too new, still learning the ropes. All I can do now is bare down, be prepared, communicate well, struggle with balance, seek feedback, learn from my mistakes, and do everything like I give a damn.
In many ways “experience” is merely an accumulation of our mistakes and what we learned from them. How we handle these mistakes is what determines our growth and improvement as lawyers – as human beings.
But, you can also learn from the tribulations of others. SHG speculates that Jo-Jo traveled too far down the rabbit hole and in the clutches of pathological obsession. Brian Tannenbaum asks what if Jo-Jo had a mentor? I can’t speculate on Jo-Jo’s mental state or lack of mentorship, but new lawyers should hopefully be able to learn from his mistakes.
Don’t bite off more than you can chew. Know that you don’t know it all. Find other people who you can rely on for advice and perspective.
Know when to let it go.