Good lawyers sometimes have trouble sleeping. They wake up in the middle of the night, their mind racked with some minute detail of a transaction. Thoughts swirling about the deposition tomorrow morning. Second guessing the discovery response they filed that afternoon. They think through problems, working towards some type of resolution. They obsess about their cases and clients when needed. There is no “off switch” for taking care of their client’s problems. Being a lawyer is a full time, 24/7 job that will creep into every aspect of your life. It can cause you to worry a fair bit.

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But worrying is good. Worrying inspires creativity and fuels determination. Worrying can provide caution and attention to detail. Worrying means you are concerned about the matter and have taken personal ownership of the problem. It means that you might come up with a solution to a client issue at the office, in your car, or in the shower. Time away from the office can actually spur innovative solutions to problems – research studies show that our brains actually work better with some downtime. So don’t be surprised by a 2 am epiphany on an issue.

That being said, you can also worry too much. You can beat yourself up with worry. It can become unhealthy and destructive. Just make sure that some of the time and effort spent on worrying about your cases is also spent on actually solving the problems on those cases. It’s a tenuous balancing act – one that I imagine continues over the course of a career.

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